Abeline Paradox

Abeline Paradox, where everyone who wants to avoid another horrifically violent period ends up quoting Stephen Pinker and trying to convince themselves that someone else will handle it, assuming the best they can do is not rock the boat too badly. This is simply a method of playing into the mobs. All the effort that we spend trying to look like we are on the right side is lost, for it cannot be spent on trying to do the right thing\